Conan O’Brien is no stranger to making audiences laugh, but as he prepares to host the 97th Academy Awards, the comedian is navigating a whirlwind of personal challenges. From the loss of both his parents within days to witnessing the devastation caused by Los Angeles wildfires, O’Brien is taking life “a day at a time.” In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE, the late-night legend opens up about resilience, finding meaning amidst chaos, and why his upcoming Oscars hosting gig feels both daunting and significant.
A Personal Journey of Loss and Resilience
The end of 2024 marked a somber chapter for Conan O’Brien, with the passing of his parents just three days apart in December. His father, Dr. Thomas O’Brien, died at 95 after a period of declining health, followed by his mother, Ruth Reardon O’Brien, who passed peacefully at 92.
“It’s been an intense time,” O’Brien shared. “Losing both parents in such quick succession has been overwhelming, but I’m taking it one day at a time.” Reflecting on their influence, he described his parents as his greatest supporters, with a sense of humor that shaped his comedic style.
Despite the grief, O’Brien has found solace in honoring his parents’ legacy. “It’s moments like these that remind me to check in with others, to ask how they’re doing,” he said. “Even in the hardest times, we find ways to move forward.”
Wildfires Add Another Layer of Challenge
As Los Angeles battles raging wildfires, O’Brien’s Pacific Palisades home narrowly escaped damage. However, the comedian remains deeply affected by the destruction faced by his community. “I spoke to a woman whose apartment burned to the ground. Her resilience inspired me,” he said.
O’Brien has been vocal about supporting those impacted, urging others to listen and lend a hand. “It’s a time to connect with people, to be there for one another,” he emphasized. Amid the chaos, he acknowledged the duality of his responsibilities: “Preparing for the Oscars feels trivial in some ways, but it’s also a way to keep going, to bring a sense of normalcy.”
The fires, which have burned tens of thousands of acres, serve as a stark reminder of the fragility of life. For O’Brien, the devastation underscores the importance of creating meaningful work and staying present for his community.
The Oscars: A Beacon of Hope Amidst Adversity
With just weeks until the 97th Academy Awards, O’Brien is focused on delivering a show that resonates with viewers worldwide. “The Oscars might seem like a spectacle, but it’s a celebration of creativity and perseverance,” he shared.
As host, O’Brien hopes to bring levity and connection to the ceremony, which will air live on March 2. “Art and entertainment remind us of our shared humanity,” he said. “In times of hardship, they give us something to hold onto.”
Balancing grief, community crises, and professional commitments hasn’t been easy, but O’Brien remains determined. “It’s not about ignoring the pain but finding ways to keep moving,” he concluded. “The Oscars are a reminder that, even in the darkest times, we keep making stuff. We keep going.”
As Conan O’Brien gears up for the Oscars, his journey reflects the resilience and compassion needed in challenging times. From personal loss to community devastation, the comedian’s message is clear: life may test us, but creativity and connection light the way forward. Tune in to see him host the 97th Academy Awards on March 2, a night sure to celebrate perseverance and artistry.
